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[40] Confidence Isn’t a Costume

Melissa Janson Season 3 Episode 40

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You ever walk into a room and feel like you have to put on confidence? Like you need to act a certain way, sound a certain way, and basically perform so people believe you have it all together?

Yeah… that’s not real confidence. That’s exhausting.

This episode is all about why confidence isn’t something you fake—it’s something you own. And when you stop performing and start showing up as your actual self, confidence stops feeling like a struggle and starts feeling natural.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why “fake it till you make it” is actually making confidence harder
  • How forcing confidence drains you instead of builds you up
  • The real difference between people who seem confident and people who are confident
  • Three steps to start building effortless, real confidence today

If you’re tired of feeling like confidence is something you have to put on like a costume, this episode is your permission to drop the act and start owning who you actually are.

Want to go deeper? Let’s get real about what’s actually keeping you stuck.

Book an Inner Mean Girl Audit ($97) – In 60 minutes, we’ll break down exactly where your inner mean girl is sabotaging your confidence, where perfectionism or self-doubt is holding you back, and create an action plan to start showing up fully as yourself.

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And if nothing else—your challenge today? Stop performing confidence. Pick one small way to actually build it instead.

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